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A few weeks ago we finally moved Julie's little blue cot into Rosa's room, and now they actually share a room for the very first time (they did have a 'shared room' in our previous apartment, but they never really slept there together). To say it has proven a success so far would be a bit premature: in fact these last few weeks have been a mix of a few very good nights and a lot of terrible ones. However the terrible part didn't necessarily have that much to do with the girls sharing a room: most of the time they each had their own many seperate reasons for waking up and leaving us totally sleep-deprived (and eventually the one would also wake the other up of course, so we had quite a few nights with the two of them keeping each other awake). They do love sharing a room by the way, so the aspect of the two of them enjoying each other's company and developing their own little routines is really sweet to witness.

The room the girls share isn't a very big one, but the funny thing is that now that Julie and her bed have moved in, it seems easier to organize the space in a more efficient and playful way, without the feeling of losing that much room. A little while ago I found some vintage nursery school tables with matching chairs, and I put one of the tables in the girls' room. Now they have a little reading/drawing nook, which hardly occupies more space than the previous arrangement with only the vintage bench and doll bed.

A little while ago I stumbled upon a pinterest link that led to a post on a website about the previous shared nursery that we created in our old home. It was funny to look at those old pictures (of a planned shared nursery that never ended up being shared), but even more funny & interesting was reading the comments on the particular blog post.

When you put things on the internet you inevitably open yourself up to the possibility of getting comments and criticism, which can be positive but of course also pretty negative. In general I think the mama/craft/design blog community is rather friendly: we usually don't say it in one's 'face' when we think one's home, products, pictures or creations are a total disaster, or when their writing style is annoying us terribly. However this type of courtesy is often less visible when your pictures start travelling all over the net and end up on websites such as Apartment therapy, that ask for people's opinion on interior decoration issues. Then all of a sudden you can start reading some more honest views ;). Like this comment, about these pictures of our previous nursery:

"No. I like creative spaces. This is to much junk for a glorified walk in closet, that's pretty much what this room is, WIC. I have seen better put together rooms in a small space, this is horrid."

Ah well, of course it's never a wonderful thing when your nursery is being called horrid and 'too much junk for a glorified walk in closet'. But on the other hand it makes sense: we all have different tastes and I can perfectly well imagine that what I like may be awful in someone else's view.

But it's getting better... The next person commenting on the blog post, a certain MummyKitM, leaves no less than three comments after another.

The first:

"Those cribs actually look illegal. How far apart are the "bars"?? They look as if a baby could easily slide through and hang. And I really detest seeing pillows in a crib. The shelves are hard to get to, as are some of the clothes. What is with that chair? There's no space for it in 3 of the pictures, and yet, magically, it appears in the fourth? It looks truly uncomfortable, also. That is so insanely staged. I'm sorry, but this whole room is a "fail"."

Then the second:

"And I only just noticed: the beds *AGAINST* a heater?? With *NO* cover *OR* space?!?!?!? W.T.H?!?!?!"

And finally:

"I see that this is in the Netherlands, so I don't know their laws for cribs, but I see even more things in this room that, as a parent, raise alarm bells. Buttons? On a baby sleeper?"

The funny thing is that when pictures of our nursery appear on international (mainly American) websites, these 'OMG-so-dangerous' comments always start pouring down. It's interesting that on the one hand I often get nice emails from American readers who ask me where they can find such a nice vintage crib, while on the other hand there are always people who seem to think that here in Europe we are deliberately trying to harm our kids or something.

This online-safety-worrying is a fascinating thing: there seems to be a whole crowd of concerned moms online who are constantly checking every possible nursery picture for any kind of safety hazards. I've seen it so many times (and not only regarding my own pictures!), and if you ask me, it's a bit crazy. Don't get me wrong: like all moms (even Dutch or European ones, which may come as a surprise to some commenters ;)) I'm very much concerned for my kids' health. Also I definitely wouldn't want to ridiculize people's actual concerns for things such as SIDS, which is an awful thing. But this whole obsession with seeing enormous hazards in every possible thing? It seems quite stressful and unnecessary to me. If you want to hear my opinion, these are my two cents.

First of all about these vintage beds: I know so many people with cribs like these (and in fact whole generations grew up in them, because they're 1950s beds), and really, I've never ever witnessed anything that comes even the remotest bit close to babies getting their heads stuck between the bars of the bed. In fact I don't think it can happen (but maybe my kids just have giant heads!). Never say never, but personally I think the safety of your children has much more to do with being attentive and present as a parent than with all those laws, rules and precautions that people come up with in order to avoid any possible danger. I've always had my kids very close to me (like in a crib next to my bed for about the first year or so, or napping in a wrap during the day, or in a crib in the room next to mine) and I always check up on them when I hear them cry.

Personally I think common sense, attentiveness, intuition and staying close are key words when it comes to the safety of your baby and toddler. Of course it's wise to take some precautions, but in the end it's not laws or precautions or all kinds of ingenious technological tools that have to take care of your kid and it's safety, but you yourself.

To be honest I often think that as a mother I should be a little more nonchalant: compared to other moms I often consider myself as a bit too controlling, staying too close sometimes and not  allowing my kids enough room to take risks, make their own mistakes and sometimes get hurt. But of course that kind of thing isn't really visible on a picture with some decorative pillows in a crib ;).

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I never quite understood this whole honeycomb/pompom thing: nice for parties, but all the time, in your home? (says someone who puts buntings everywhere ;)) But during a bike ride in the city I saw a vase with a bunch of bamboo sticks with colorful honeycombs in the window of a house, and I immediately fell for it. At a certain point Rosa asked me why we kept riding back and forth through that same street over and over again... Well, because of those sticks with the colorful honeycombs of course!

I think these will be a perfect replacement for my slightly our of control fresh flower addiction (not to mention the constant work it brings to make sure that there are fresh flowers all the time instead of neglected sad-looking ones ;)). Though I can imagine that these are just way too attractive for tiny curious hands... Let's see if they'll survive their first night with the girls! 

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If I were asked to sell my soul in order to never ever have to tidy up again, I'd probably give it away for free. Seriously, me and tidying up, it's not that it just isn't a match made in heaven, it's more of a match that was never made at all. And of course this kind of thing clashes terribly with my love for beautiful things, and with my wish to enjoy those beautiful things around me instead of constantly looking at a lot of mess. It clashes with running a household with (equally messy) kids. And it clashes with a man who likes everything clean and organized (yes, I'm the one who drops her clothes on the floor here ;)).

I understand people who reach this point of minimizing their belongings perfectly well (but I must be honest: I'll probably never get there ;)). All the stuff you acquire comes with the obligation of taking care of it, managing it even. We all want bigger houses, bigger gardens, more beautiful things, but it always seems nicer to acquire those things than to actually take care of them properly. Well at least I am good at wanting to bring lots of beautiful things into the house, and then I forget to take good care of them, so often they end up on a big pile of non-descript things that I don't really know what to do with. Of course I don't think that you should take care of your belongings like they were your babies or something, but I realize that there's a certain decadence in wanting things so much and then neglecting them once you have them.

So here's plan # Ilostcount to be a bit more tidy and to enjoy the nice things we already have more by actually being able to see them properly, instead of hidden behind piles of other things! ;)

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Some days it works, some days it doesn't... Lately we've been experiencing some of these really good days, that already start early (as usual ;)) in a sunny garden, with the girls playing so nicely together, sometimes even for hours at a stretch while hardly needing any intervention from our side. Then everything seems to go so smoothly, there's room for everyone to relax and do a bit of what they like... And then I can't help but start dreaming about life always being a bit more this way.

This kind of relaxed harmony... I like it so much, but you can never really control it and it's often unexpected. I guess maybe that's part of why it is so good. Some days all the ingredients seem to be there: the sun, the garden, no plans for the day... But then for some reason or another the girls keep fighting over literally everything, someone is tired or cranky or sometimes I just can't let go of all the things that distract me and really be present...

But though I know that there's no planning of these things, I'm definitely going to try to optimalize circumstances and bring as much relaxed sunny Sunday morning as possible into the rest of our week... Now all I can hope is that the girls get what I mean and are ready to join me! ;) 

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Our most recent project around the house has been redoing the garden. We had the main layout of the garden being redone by a gardener, who also placed a wooden playhouse with a swing and slide for the girls. Our first wish was not necessarily a very 'beautiful garden' but mainly a place for play, but when our very 'kidproof' garden was ready I did miss some nice details and floral beauty. So the next step was adding some plants and flowers. And of course the girls showed that they don't necessarily need those big toys for play: gardening with grandpa is just as much fun!

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And so weeks flew by without a single post on this blog... Wish I could say I've been working on a real big project or something, but I haven't ;). Been working on lots of small ones though, like many custom orders and some new designs. And there was a nice photoshoot, that required lots and lots of tidying up, in particular in my studio. So everything looked organized again here, at least for a day or two.

But mainly I've been focusing on stuff away from the computer, like reading lots of books in bath, spending as much time as possible in the garden, and on creating some new healthy food habits. So now I spend half of my time in the kitchen preparing all kinds of good food... But please don't expect this blog to turn into some sort of food blog, there are already so many good ones and I've never been particularly good at nor interested in taking pictures of what I cook (I just always find it so hard to imagine that people can find the time and energy to style and take pictures of their meals, I always just want to eat them immediately ;)).

Also I've been writing some guest posts on the Kleine Sam blog (in Dutch), you can find them here and here.

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About a year ago we slightly impulsively bought ourselves a house. And I must say we're quite happy we did. Living here has been much fun and very comfortable, and sometimes it's hard to imagine what living in our previous apartment was like. Two kids, second and third floor, lots of stairs, no elevator! How did we do that? But of course we managed, and I'm sure it would still have been possible to live there in a more or less convenient way today. But this is much better!

However lately we've also been confronted with this other side of 'being homeowners'. And I must say I've started to revalue renting ;). Sometimes it seems like every other day something breaks down or needs maintenance. A leaking water boiler, a broken tap, a door that doesn't close properly anymore, a door lock that's broken, a leaking radiator, a toilet cistern that keeps flushing for hours... Things keep being added to the list, sometimes on a daily basis.

The house wasn't in very bad condition or anything when we bought it, and we thought we'd done most of the necessary maintenance before we moved in last summer. But apparently there has been some more deferred maintenance, and well maybe this maintenance thing is just some sort of ongoing task for the rest of your non-renting life. What I realize mainly is that when you're renting (from a good landlord) it's all so easy: just one phonecall with your complaint and they take care of it. But now often I even have to figure out first what kind of complaint I actually have and what kind of repairman could be the right person to solve it...

And I know that this is all 'investing in your own property' and all that, but it's just such a bummer to see such large amounts of money flood to all kinds of service men... Honestly I just want to spend hundreds of Euros on all kinds of frivolous interior items and not on new toilet flushing systems and boiler repairs! ;)

Ah well, I think if we keep going at this pace we'll have replaced the complete house by the end of this year ;).

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Some lyrics of favorite songs leave such a strong impression that they seem to nestle in your head and stay there forever. I for example just can't ever climb on a table without hearing Cat Power's Lived in bars (We've lived in bars and danced on the tables...) in the back of my mind. Not that I ever dance on our table, but I do take pictures there ;).

Someone who does like to dance on our tables is Rosa, that is: when she's feeling well. But both girls have been sick on and off these last three or four weeks and all these nights of being awake and upset (Rosa and Julie) and comforting and changing beds (us) are starting to weigh upon all of us a bit. So Rosa stayed home from daycare today and we pottered around the house a bit together.

I've been working on many new things lately, including a whole new series of postcards, some posters and I hope I can get started on some new ceramics real soon too.

While a sick but relaxed Rosa watched Pippi Longstocking on tv I could even finish some orders...

So far one sick daughter has meant another healthy one...

... and then one or two days later it's been the other way around!

The next one who's going to climb on our tables is Julie, who enthusiastically started to climb and walk lately. A kid who's starting to walk, I still think it's one of the most beautiful things to witness! And often she's even singing while she walks... The sweetest thing!

(oh, and did I already mention that I've developed a card rack addiction lately...? They're everywhere around the house, even in the bathroom! ;))

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A new A3 size poster called The rabbits! It's available here.

My selection of A3 size posters has been growing a lot lately (and there's more to come!), somehow I was a bit done with the A4 size and felt the wish to move to something bigger ;).

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Back in 2009 (I have proof, this must be what blogging is for ;)) I ordered three beautiful screen printed concert posters from Poster Cabaret. The Feist poster with it's vibrant colors was my favorite, but somehow I never got to the point of framing and hanging it in our previous apartment. Something with non-standard sizing and no empty walls left I guess.

So the screenprinted posters moved with us to this house, still in their original roll, and they were somewhere in the back of my mind, 'maybe if I'll ever find a nice place for them and the right frame, I'll hang them somewhere'. In fact I wasn't that sure that I'd still like something that I bought about five years ago.

But when I had a fresh look at my concert posters I realized that I still liked them a lot. Which was kind of a nice thing to find out, because lately I've been obsessing a bit about the fact that I get bored with so many things so (and too) quickly these days.

I still didn't have the perfectly fitting frame, but since I know that I sometimes just have to act now in order to avoid another five years of gathering dust, I framed the poster in a slightly unconventional way, taping it onto the matte with masking tape. Now I only have to find the perfect place for the other two concert posters that are still waiting in the roll!

 

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About Ninainvorm

I'm Nina, ceramics designer, art/ craft/ design lover and mom of Rosa and Julie. This blog is about the things I make (you can find my online shop here) and the things I love (design, art, craft, interior, fashion, photography). You may have noticed a special emphasis on my two beautiful girls and everything children's design related!

There used to be a second blog on children's clothing, Coolkidsclothes, but it's currently sort of asleep and all the images have vanished temporarily, but I hope to revitalize it real soon.

Meanwhile, lovely children's clothing will be an important part of this blog here as well.

Want to get in touch? You can always send me an email through ik_ben_nina@hotmail.com.

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